Today was about like this. I woke up, sent out the email to the girlfriend's who seem as enthusiastic as me to start the challenge; and then reality of the challenge hits.
I guess God wanted to make sure I had opportunities to not criticize or say anything negative to Matt.
Recap: You know that project that you ask for ages to get done? You know, the one that really won't take that long and could save everyone a headache if it was just done. Yes, the one that you have asked 101 times for your hubby to take care of???
Cue Bath time today: Em wants her Rapunzel doll to play with in the bath. I go to open her bedroom door and grab the doll. WAIT.....door won't open. I turn the knob, jiggle the knob, NOTHING! The doorknob that I have requested to be changed is
I am ready to POUNCE. I want to tell him how this could have all been avoided if he would have fixed it when I asked, on and on and on.
WAIT....crap! I am not supposed to say anything negative. Well, now what??? Stand here in silence? Just let Em sleep on the couch so that I don't have to mention the doorknob, break the door down myself? OR, walk into the kitchen and kindly ask Matt to help. I would rather poke my eye out at this moment.
Thank you Jesus that you come to my rescue when I am weak. I walked in and asked Matt for help. He has been working on that door for over 45 minutes and still isn't in. He is sweaty and agitated. I don't think he needed me to add any words. He knows I was right and that he should have taken care of it when I asked. This could have been a bigger argument if I would have done my norm. Thank you Jesus for helping me get through day 1!!
ONE DAY AT A TIME!
Oh and when I thanked him for choosing to marry me, I thought he was going to melt into a puddle. It was precious to see what those words meant to him. SCORE!

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